This question is geared more towards former non-Christians who were very resistant towards the Gospel.
What would you say was your biggest barrier(s) in coming to Christ?
I ask because I’ve recently heard some imply that the apologetics approach would not have worked on them at the time no matter how good the argument was. Some have said they were more motivated by their own arrogance and what their family/friends would have thought. I even heard a seminary professor who came to Christ in college say that prior to salvation, the only time he cared about the poor and suffering children of the world was when he was debating Christians.
Just curious as to others experience.