A close friend (believer) who had all the courage to speak with me said that his life has changed since the time his sister died. She was going through some serious sickness (staying in the middle east with their mother) and asked him several times to send some money so that she can go to hospital to do tests and pay bills if she had to be admitted for surgery / pay bills.
His mother (staying with his sister) insisted over the phone that she (sister) is allright and nothing is wrong. Church is praying for recovery and nothing is serious.
He couldn’t effort to send money to his sister because his salary was not enough.
Within couple of months his sister died.
Now he is shocked, grieving and keeps on thinking day and sometimes sleepless nights that ‘he is the cause of his sisters death’ by not sending money and feeling guilty. He said to me that he cannot be happy since the time of her death and even pastors, family tried to comfort him. This thought keeps haunting.
Which book(s), articles, videos would you suggest that I can give him to let him know that he is not the cause of his sisters death. Recently I came across Ravi’s video in which he explains but cannot find anymore. Please help or do you think he needs a doctor or a counseling.