Well, let me try to add context around these snippets based neighboring content in several of his talks. (Scriptures are NIV)
when you’re in Christ everything is attracted to you
Graham pre-scripts his talks and frequently phrases this as “All of heaven is attracted to Jesus in you.”
The principle here is touched on in many places in the epistles, another way to state it is that Jesus has earned every blessing, and that we sit with him in heavenly places, and as co-heirs share in his favor and grace, and sufferings.
A few good examples:
1 Col 27-29: To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. He is the one we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ. To this end I strenuously contend with all the energy Christ so powerfully works in me.
Rev 5:12 In a loud voice they were saying: “Worthy is the Lamb, who was slain, to receive power and wealth and wisdom and strength and honor and glory and praise!”
Ephesians 1:3 “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.”
Romans 8:14-17 " For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.
Hebrews 13:5 " Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?”
Ephesians 5:29-32: After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.
1 Cor 6:15-17 - Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” But whoever is united with the Lord is one with him in spirit.
So, I’ve found this idea echoes throughout the NT…we are told by Jesus, Paul, Peter, to expect help from God. Not only through theology, but through His power to shape situations and circumstances. That the Holy Spirit is active with believers to achieve His will. Without this power from Him we can’t do His will or be what He wants us to be. (attempted to link verses here, but as I’m a new user I’m apparently limited/restricted)
never work on a negative though - just change it and work on a new one
To expand on this, the context he typically says this in is related to “thought life” – how access to higher thinking can help change our mindsets (and I agree can be self-help-y in its presentation). But still, rooted in scripture:
1 Cor 2:16 ““Who has known the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ.”
Mark 10:27 - "Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”
Philippians 4:8 - Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
Ephesians 4:29 - Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.